10 BEST BOOKS YOU MUST READ BEFORE TURNING 30

10 BEST BOOKS YOU MUST READ BEFORE TURNING 30

These are the best books one must read before turning 30. They have the assets which will make you rich, and broaden your mental horizons. These books will leave you wondering and keeps you mesmerized for a long time. So, I have listed some of the best books for everyone who want to achieve success in life. Do you want to be ‘Successful’ in life? So com’on quickly have a look on the BEST BOOKS EVER!!

 

 Here we Go!!!

 

 1.)HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE BY DALE CARNEGIE

 

The specialty of this book is that it was written way back in 1936 and it still stands to be the ‘Best Seller’ even to this day. It’s a beautiful book which upholds the nature of  Human Beings and describes how to communicate.

 

Why this book?

This is because the ancient concept of ‘Human being interactions and communication’ takes a stand even today in the society and is researched on it’s improvements literally everyday. The ability to get Human Beings to love you and support you is very important to gain success in life.

 

By reading this book you will learn how to deal, influence and make friends with people. This is a very important quality that every business strives on.

 

If you are seriously thinking about making business and deals with human beings, then this book is for you. You will love reading it!!

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  2.)YOU CAN NEGOTIATE ANYTHING BY HERB COHEN 

 

 He is the greatest negotiators in the world. He has negotiated so many big deals for different aspects. This book is also about how to get what you want from people.

 

This book indeed helps you to develop your communication skills. It is a true motivator and a path maker  for those who want to achieve success in life.

 

So why wait? Book your copy today!!!

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3.) THE MILLIONAIRE NEXT DOOR BY THOMAS J STANLEY

 

You will find out from this book that most of the millionaires were once upon a time unrecognised or were living a normal life. This book helps in opening the eyes of the reader towards the reality of this world. It stresses that a normal person usually tends to give excuses and loses the best of the opportunities on his way. But the future millionaire utilises every opportunity and every chance to achieve success in his/her life.

 

It is highly recommended to young people. Book your order today on the below given link and prepare your way to be a future millionaire!!!

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4.)PREDICTABLY IRRATIONAL BY DAN ARIELY

 

     This book mainly deals with the Psychology aspect of Human Beings. It teaches it’s reader various ways to understand and analyse the mindset of different people. It gives important things to be more successful in life. This book helps to deal in a better way with Human beings.

 

So don’t miss out on this book.

 

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5.)TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST BUT TOUGH PEOPLE DO BY Dr.ROBERT SCHULLER

 

 

This book opens up a wider world stating that everyone has struggles and problems in life. It makes us realise that every person goes through a tough time at some point of their life.

 

So why wait?? Read the book and explore the secrets!!!

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 6.)THINK AND GROW RICH BY NAPOLEAN HILL

 

It is preferably the oldest books and the best seller of all times. It was written by Napolean Hill after interviewing many people on their personal lives on success.

 

Go ahead, book your copy online and read today!!!

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7.)THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE BY STEPHEN  COVEY

 

This has also been a bestselling book. Here the author says that people who are proactive are more prone to be successful in life. These people don’t find out reasons to escape, instead find out new ways to solve a problem. They don’t wait for anyone to help them do their work instead they go out and get their things done.

 

To know all the 7 best habits, start reading the book today.

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8.)WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO BY TIM LAHAYE

 

This book mainly highlights the different personalities, human behaviour and temperament of human beings. This book mainly focuses on giving you enough ways to understand who you are and what are your potentials.

 

     Do you want to know your better self, then this book is the best for you.

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9.)RICH DAD  POOR DAD BY ROBERT KIYOSAKI AND SHARON LECHTER

 This is the most recommended and most loved book of almost everyone. 

Haven’t read yet?? Then go and discover the beauty of this book!!

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10.) THE RICHEST MAN IN BABYLON BY GEORGE SAMUEL CLASON

This is the best book to read. It is simple and worth reading. It will help you change and improve your financial conditions.

 

 Believe me you will feel much better reading this book, because after reading this entire book you will have tons of ideas  on  how to manage your money and investments.

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This book is a must readable one and recommended to everyone.

These are few of the best books. So don’t miss out on them. Don’t lose your 30 years without reading them. All the secrets to be rich and successful are hidden in these books.

 

Go, read the books and prepare your way to be the next millionaire.

 

GOOD LUCK!!!

How to face challenges in life?

HOW TO FACE CHALLENGES IN LIFE?

 

 

“Believe where others doubt; work where others refuse; save where others waste; stay where others quit, and you will win when others lose.”

 

“Change is nature of life. But challenge is aim of life. So you have to challenge the changes and not change the challenges.”

 

Haven’t we faced so many challenges in life? Everyday turns out to be a challenge. Every minute becomes challenging for few and every person we meet turns out to be very challenging for others.

 

Let us understand first what are challenges

 

 Challenges are obstacles, hindrance which comes in our way of success. It either makes us strong over a period of time or kills our confidence, if we fail to face them. They are like an additional bonus in our life, which helps us to grow mentally and emotionally grounded. Challenges bring out the best in a person.

 

Why do we fear facing challenges?

 

We are scared that we might lose ourselves in the battle of success. We even have the perception, that challenges put us down or make us weak. Assumption of fear of the future, low emotional intelligence, lack of stability in the vision, deterioration of consistency, fear of failure easily makes our way towards, drowning in the pool of challenges. Also insecurity of taking risks in life, demotivates us, in stepping back, in front of the challenges.

 

  Challenges appear as huge mountains from a far distance, but are only tiny obstacles when we approach it closer. The already inbuilt thought that it is going to dread us for the rest of our lives, stops us from facing the challenges and thus we either escape or run away from it.

 

 

Do we all face Challenges in life?

 

Yes, we all definitely face various challenges in life. Every person has a different outlook and an attitude towards the obstacles they come across. Some face it boldly, some overcome it and many try to escape from it, and end up losing themselves and everything in the game of life.

 

Every person has different set of challenges to face on a daily basis. The challenges are different for a student, home-maker, working women, unemployed graduates, businessman, struggling entrepreneur, families below the poverty line, diseased people etc. Struggles, obstacles, pain is different. But the one who faces it with all their will, the one who overcomes and overpowers their challenges will definitely win, even if the path is laden with thorns.

 

Who has not faced challenges? Every great personality you see today, on the internet or in the books have faced a lot of struggles in their life. Barack Obama, Mother Theresa, Mahatma Gandhiji, Ed sheeran, and popular entrepreneurs like Himeesh Madan, Sandeep Maheshwari are popular and successful today. Why? It’s only because of their eager to overcome all the challenges in their life. These are few personalities, in the list of great achievers, who have achieved a lot in their lives and are true examples to everyone who look at them. If they had pondered over their struggles, and locked themselves up in their comfort zones ,would they have ever been ‘The One’ you adore today?

 

 

What can be Done?

 

Challenges are a part and parcel of our life. So here are some tips that you can follow in order to prepare yourself to face the obstacles in your life.

 

1.   Calmness: Be calm when there is a storm in your life. Don’t lose yourself in the wind. Being calm  during problems, keeps the mind active in finding out solutions to the problems.

2.      Patience: A best asset of every successful person in life. Learn to be patient. It’s the power which will help you gain a lot in life. Patience is that weapon which will keep you strong during your difficult times.

3.      Emotionally strong: One Important aspect of life. Being emotionally strong helps one take better and worthy decisions. It will help you in building a personality that shines like a Diamond   and at the same time, is difficult to manipulate.

4.      Intellectually strong: Wisdom and Intelligence to tackle any problem is a must. Having strong Intelligence Quotient, helps one to easily cope up with their problems.

5.      Planning and Organisation: Always Plan and Organise your next move and step. Don’t jump into sudden decisions and conclusions. Always write down your to-do list on a piece of paper and work on it. Always make it a habit to write down new things, ideas you learn. It will definitely give you a better clarity of the different ways in which you can solve the problem.

6.      Experience: This is a boon to your success. Gain experience by experimenting different things. Try out a 100 new different things, fail and learn from them. This will help you enrich your experience of almost everything. At the end of the day, you may not win all your goals, but you will definitely have a rich bundle of experience, to boldly face all your challenges.

7.      Expert Advice: One Expert advice at the right time can help, solve so many problems. Always seek the help and advice of the right person, when the challenges are too difficult to handle. Prefer talking to an experienced person in that particular field and try figuring out the solutions to your problems.

8.      Trial and Error: It is the best method to gain more experience and knowledge of things you want to achieve success in. Keep Trying and never give up on your problems. Always remember the great personality, Thomas Alva Edison who never gave up until he tried numerous times.

9.      Logical thinking: It’s the need of the hour. One must have Logical and Critical thinking in approaching towards a particular problem. This helps you look at a problem from the analytical mindset rather than the emotional way of looking at the problems.

10.  Knowledge: The power of knowledge is indeed amazing. It can create wonders for you. It can help you ease your problems. Moreover, you will develop wisdom with the growth of knowledge you have. This in-turn will help you face all your major challenges in life.

 Every person in this world faces different challenges at different levels. It’s ultimately ‘YOU’ who will decide the destiny of your future. So be brave, courageous and boldly face all your challenges in life and be Successful.

GOOD LUCK!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Meaning of Smile in life

Quote:

"Though there are thousands of languages around this world, the language of smile can beat them all, because smile is the language even a baby can speak."

"Smile a lot it costs nothing "

Synonyms:

Beam, grin, laugh, smirk, simper.

Antonyms:

To frown

Wonders of Smile:

Smile is a beautiful gift  which everyone receives right from the time of their birth.It has a special power, to change the atmosphere, when it shines on the face of a person.It sends radiations of joy, happiness to the people surrounding the person with the smile.Smile is cost-free and no tax is levied on the person who smiles back.

What's stopping you from smiling?

So literally have you wondered why??

Smile doesn't negatively effect you in any way. By your, one beautiful smile, you can light up, the sulken faces of soo many around.It can be a positive comforting vibe, to someone or it can be a pain-killer for few.Your one smile can make wonders.

How does my smile effect someone ?

If your asking me this question, I'll narrate you, a story on how smile can change a life.In a far away village, there lived  a farmer. Compared to the previous year, this year he had not made enough profit from the crops.As a reason, his family was suffering from  hunger everyday.In order to bridge gaps of financial crisis, he started making debts.Day by day, his debts grew and his financial condition was getting worser and worser.

The farmer was so depressed, he had no way to feed his family nor clear his debts.Drowned in worries, stress and devastating feeling of failure, the farmer silently left his house, without the knowledge of his family members.

The farmer started walking with heavy steps, his shoulders drooped, head was bowed down with worries and negative thoughts.He didn't know where he was going.But, he had decided to live no more. As he reached the cliff of the mountain, he suddenly turned around to the sound he heard.There were goats and sheeps grazing on the grass.Amidst them, there was a young boy, with a beautiful smile on his face.

The farmer was very mesmerised with his smile.He thought to himself, why didn't I smile at my problems and face it boldly?

Just by looking at that genuine smile, he changed his mind and went back home, to live a new life again.

Why smile is Important in our life?

• Smiling keeps you cheerful and healthy.
• It spreads happiness, joy and positivity to other people.
• It reduces one's stress level also reducing possible diseases.
• Smile makes a person look 10 times more beautiful than they are.
• A smile can make a big difference, so smile at all your problems and face them boldly.

Always give a genuine smile and spread love.

What do you mean by helping?

Quote:

"A great thing the little lamp can do, which the big Sun cannot, is to give light at night. No one is superior by size, but is superior by purpose."

What is meant by help?

'To help' means to offer support to anyone who are struggling with their difficulties.It can also be understood as, giving a loving hand to the person, drowning in the pool of sorrows and problems.

Synonyms for help:

To assist, aid, a helping hand, support, advice, comfort.

Antonyms for help:

Blockage, encumbrance, hindrance, harm.

How can you be a helpful person?

First of all, anyone can be a helpful hand.You need to identify the people around you, struggling to cope up with their problems.The problems might be minor, but may appear to be a mountain to the person.You can help them by simplifying their problems, providing solutions and advices when asked.You can even provide a service of mankind to the needful person.

Everyone in this world, suffers from one problem or the other.There are so many, who find it difficult to express their pain , to others.The difficulties heap up in their life, to turn out into stress, driving out the joy and happiness, finally leading to death.

How to help in such cases?

• Smile: A smile is the best remedy for any difficulties.When you see anyone stressed deeply in their life, you can always make an effort to spread Joy in their life, by giving a wonderful smile to them.
• Talk to them:  This really helps the people who are depressed and are dying from within.Give them a new hope , a new enthusiasm that someone still exists, who understands their pain.
• Discuss: when you have identified the people, who are in need of help, offer them a helping hand.Talk to them, about the similar problems you faced in your life.Directly or Indirectly give them clues to solve their difficulties.
• Counsellor: Introduce the person to the counsellor.By this way, you can bring in a revolution in their life.
• Helping hand: You may find anyone who is really in need of a person to help mechanically.May be to shift a furniture, to buy grocery, or to fix their watch.Help them and feel the joy of helping.
• Helping Monetarily: Look out for such students or needy people, who are in deep need of money for their basic necessities or to pay fees for their education.Help them to achieve and proceed in life.You never know, you would have saved a life from dying or saved a student from being deprived of education.

What is the use of Helping ?

1. By genuinely helping a person, you don't receive any monetary benefits.But it can give you inner peace and happiness, of helping a needy person.
2. It will make you a humane person.
3. Simply by helping, you will never know what kind of necessity you have provided to that person.
4. Just by helping someone, you can prevent the person from doing wrong, you can motivate someone, you can stop the person from being harassed, embarrassed, insulted or anything.You never Know !!!

 So always  be ready to help the needy, today and everyday.

What is Forgiveness and why is it Important

Quote on Forgiveness:

"The weak can never forgive.Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

"Forgiveness doesn't change the past, but it does change the future."

Synonyms of Forgiveness:

Pardon, Mercy, Pity, Amnesty.

Meaning of Forgiveness:

"It is the wonderful fruit that a tree gives, when it is hurt by the stone."

The meaning of forgiveness, can be understood from the quote written above.When a tree is hurt, by a stone, it doesn't throw a stone back. Instead,  it gives the best fruits to the ones who threw the stone .

In the same way, taking the example of the tree, we must learn to forgive and give the best, to the one who hurts us. By forgiving, we don't lose anything valuable but we gain a lot in return .To know how, let's read further.

Definition of Forgiveness:

The true definition of Forgiveness, can be dated back to the time of Lord Jesus Christ, the God, the Preacher and the founder of Christianity.

   The teachings of Lord Jesus Christ on forgiveness is extracted from the 'The Bible'.In the Holy book of Christians, 'The Bibe', (Mark Chapter 11:25), Jesus preaches that 'when you stand and pray, forgive anything you may have against anyone , so that your father in Heaven will forgive the wrongs you have done."

  Also there is another incident in the Bible, where Jesus was crucified and brutally tortured by the soldiers.Even during his last few moments, suffering on the cross, he utters the words"Forgive them, Father! They don't know what they are doing."(Luke 23:24)

    This itself, is a bigger source of Inspiration for the Christians to imbibe forgiveness in them.Jesus proved himself to be the greatest example of forgiveness and the foundation of Christianity is built on it.

   Even in this modern world, there are so many examples of people, who have forgiven beyond limits.There might be such examples around you too.

How do you truly forgive someone?

Being a human being, it is very difficult to forgive a person, who has hurt us.Thinking of forgiveness, brings in a sense of rage and anger within us.

Why should we forgive?

• We should forgive and must try to forgive , because it liberates us from the shackles of anger and hatred.
• It opens up a temple of peace and harmony within us.
• By forgiving the  person, you are giving another chance for that person to live life meaningfully.
• Also, you are being set as an example and inspiration in the mind of that person.
• By truly, forgiving someone , you may gain another wonderful friend, whom you had lost in the course of unforgiveness.
• If you truly forgive someone with all of your heart, you might turn out to be their motivation to forgive others who have hurt them.

Importance of Forgiveness and it's benefits:

1. It makes you a better and stronger person.
2. "The tree doesnt withdraw it's shade from the woodcutter." So follow the policy of Forgiveness in life.
3. By forgiveness, the world around you, can be a better place of peace, brotherhood and harmony.
4. It will help you grow in your life in terms of Personality and Prosperity.
5. Above all, it will make you a better Human being on this planet Earth.

So what is the wait for? Apologise to the person whom you have hurt and Forgive the one, who has hurt you.

TODAY IS A NEW DAY. START A NEW BEGINNING!!!

How to turn dreams into reality

"Dream touches the heart and soul. It is a magical memory that unites fantasy and reality."

What Dreams do?

Dreams create a new destination, a new desire and a new ray of hope, to become a successful person in life.Dreams do give, a source of happiness, Imagining things which are practically impossible or far away from our virtual reality.They take us, to that level of happiness, which makes us feel that we have achieved something in life.

What kind of Dreams?

Dreams of becoming an entrepreneur, civil engineer, successful person, teacher, you-tuber, singer and many more.We have soo many dreams, which some of them struggle hard to turn it into reality and others simply brush it off.So many people, live in their dreams in reality and few live their dreams in  reality.

Action Step:

One can be successful in his/her life, if they start working towards their dream.
These are certain steps to help you :

• Dream: Never stop dreaming about your vision and goals.keep your imaginations alive within you.
• Hard work: Put in a little efforts, to turn your dreams into reality.Work  a little, struggle a bit more every day to make your dreams come true.
• Plan and Organise: Plan your steps, before you achieve your dreams.Organise each step and proceed accordingly, to achieve success.
• Visions: Have a clear vision every day.Imagine yourself as that successful person u dream of and don't ever give up.Make your vision stronger and focused.
• Errors and Failures: Note down the errors and failures you meet every day and try not to repeat the mistakes again.Inspite, learn from your mistakes and find another way to improvise ur work.
• Time -Table: Maintain a regular time-table to know the investment of your time in working towards your dream.Check , where you spend more time.Try to make use of time more efficiently.

Great men don't just dream, they live their dreams.Dreams and Success are closely associated.There is no success without dreams.

So here are few tips to become successful in life:

SAVERS

1. S:Silence, prayer or meditation.

        Start your day with any of these and try to spend atleast 2 hours in meditation daily.

2. A: Affirmation

       Always have a positive thinking built in you.Read good-thought provoking words early in the morning.

3. V: Visualisation

         Visualise your dream everday and work towards it every single minute.

4. E: Exercise

         Workout every day or perform any simply exercise for 2-3 minutes a day.This helps to keep your mind fresh and body energetic.

5. R : Reading

          Read Self-Improvement books, Informative books, Current Affairs etc.Improvise your knowledge on daily basis.

6. S : Scribing

         Make it a habit to write down new ideas and Information gained.Maintain a separate book if needed.

DREAM EVERYDAY AND WORK TOWARDS IT, YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFUL ONE DAY!!!

What is Family?what is it's Importance?

"You don't choose your family.They are God's gift to you as you are to them."

'Family' the word itself, brings in a lot of memories, happiness, memorable incidences to our minds and of course flashes the beautiful faces of our parents and troubling siblings when we think about this magical word.

Family is the best world to be in and the best time to spend with.Rightly said, we don't choose our family, it's the god's bestest blessing to us as we are the choicest gift to them.God also gives, bonus points to us in the form of siblings, who complete the fun and drama in the family.

We make beautiful memories with our family.I have a long-list of such wonderful memories, which always gets a smile on my face and sense of joy in me.Out of many memories I have, I would like to share one such 'unforgettable Incident' with my sibling.

I still cherish those special moments with my sibling , where she had not left any room to trouble me.I remember one such  incident of my childhood days.

It was an early winter morning.As usual I was brushing my teeth near a tap in the backyard of the house.Back in those days,I had the habit of stepping on the stone borders built around the coconut tree.We had dogs, and the coconut tree base was filled with dog shit, vegetable waste and other degradable waste.I was so lost in brushing my teeth, that I didn't realise that my sister was standing right behind me!!!

The very next minute, even before I could realise that , I was lying flat inside those stone walls, covered with shit on all over my body and clothes.Yes!!! My sis had pushed me right inside the wall surrounding coconut base and she was standing there laughing at me and pitying on me.😂

She still recalls it even to  this day and laughs her gut out!! It was a pity incident for me back in those days and a fun moment for her.

My childhood days, have been the best due to my prankqueen and troublemaker sibling. Siblings are a blessing.They make every moment spent with the family special, loving and fun-filled.They are the ones, who pull our leg everytime, support us when we need them, love us when we are down in sorrow and motivate us when we are lost.They are the reason because of which the family becomes a hub of love and forgiveness.

Yes of course, Parents are an integral part of the family.But the maximum amount of love, care, motivation and pranks one get, is given only by the siblings!!

Parents on one hand give us comfort, love,moral values and guidance whereas the siblings on the other hand , teach us patience, adjustments,boldness and confidence.They are the best and so is the Family☺.

This was one of favourite memorable moment with my family.What is your best memory?Share in the comment box below.